You put a $100 bill in front of you on the stage. The tip rail is full now and you want to make sure you don’t miss the chance to see the woman up close. She starts at the other end of the stage. You desperately want to make eye contact with her. Everyone is cheering and fighting for her attention. You sit quietly and calmly confident that she will see the stillness in the noise of the crowd. She looks over at you and smiles. She’s still across the stage but your sure she’s looking at you now. She begins to crawl over to you.