Hey ya'll, Scruppy here!
(i am so sorry for formatting issues and how hard it is to read)
I wanted to use these pics to explain the situation happening to us the past few months. You might have noticed the inactivity, lack of posts, and radio silence from us. The silence was not an acceptable action from us and we deeply apologize for keeping everyone in the dark for so long. I'll explain why we said nothing, but please understand we don't see it as an excuse! Ya'll pay for a service and we weren't providing or explaining why. That's not okay on our part!
Me and my partner have been dealing with back-to-back health issues. The main issue: my partner has been battling some inexplicable chronic pain that made sex extremely painful. This started happening about half a year ago or more.
We had no idea what was going on. We visited many doctors. First we thought it was a UTI- but the tests all came back negative. We thought it was a stricture- but those texts came back negative too.
We kept silent because we always thought that we finally figured out what it was and got on the right meds. As soon as we thought we found a good opportunity to record a video- the flareups would happen again and we were back to square one and confusion. We tried to put videos out- but they were always too short for our standards.
It took many months of doctor visits, tests, and consultations until we arrived at the diagnosis that we have now: Interstitial Cystitis (IC). This is a chronic condition in the bladder. The reason it took so long to get a diagnosis is because this is a very rare condition in biological men.
Treating IC is a tricky thing for everyone, even trickier when most treatments are structured around biological women. We're figuring this out one step at a time, and slowly improving with every dart on the dart board.
So I want to be clear; this DOES NOT mean the end of couple videos and seeing my fat ass get pounded! We're in the process right now of getting consultations for a surgery that could potentially fix almost everything. This surgery is pretty non-invasive and simple, and has a short recovery period. We don't know when exactly this will happen, as we have to work with insurance and take all other routes and options before insurance will cover it.
What does this mean for you guys? While we're waiting for the surgery, expect a lot more solo videos and photo sets. I'm planning on upgrading my phone with a better camera and getting a better tripod so I don't have to take awkward mirror selfies. Once I have a tripod I can take all sorts of videos with my fun toys!
I'm fully aware that you 're using your hard earned money for couple videos and ass poundings. Since we're not able to provide exactly that at the moment: as soon as I publish this post I will indefinitely discount expired and new subscriptions until we're back to the regular content we used to make! There is no setting on OF for discounting renewing subs, which really disappointed me because ya'll are the ones I want to thank the most. (Unless there is a way to do this and I can't figure it out, then plz help lol)
This has been an incredibly difficult and emotionally taxing period for us, but that does not excuse the silence. I really, TRULY appreciate everyone who's stuck with us and had a metric ton of patience. Thank you so much. It truly means the world. We would be nothing without you and your support.
I also want to address private messages: I will respond! I literally have thousands of messages to respond to (and I try to respond to everyone; not just tippers). This will take a lot of time; so I am going to respond first to anyone who tipped. To everyone else: I will get to you eventually! Please have patience ;w; it'll take me a bit because I'm honestly a little scared- but this is the least that I owe you.
If you've read this far, thank you. Please let me know what sort of solo content you all would like to see :)
